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Sunday, 10 June 2018

How to Stop getting hurt with Untrustworthy Men in your Relationship

One of our biggest fears is giving our love to someone who betrays our trust. It’s probably already happened to you. It happens to most of us over the course of a lifetime. For some, the lesson is etched in memory. They never fully trust anyone again, not like they did before. They can’t bear the thought of going through that again. 6 Significant Things #Women need from A man?

Whether it was a divorce, a lie, an affair, or a broken promise, the people we love can betray us in a thousand different ways. Some betrayals are like paper cuts, Nepal light that sting badly at the time but heal. Other betrayals cut us in half.

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These are possible worries over your mined, can these relationship, he just want to take advantage over me and let me go, how do i make it work.  how to overcome Heart broken and Fall in love Again?

Here are some ideas.

1. Don’t give him your trust right away.

Falling in love sweeps you off your feet. When you’re in love, you’re in a different reality. Everything is beautiful; everything is right. But new love is a form of intoxication. Chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, norepinephrine, and PEA cloud your senses. You can’t see your beloved clearly until the honeymoon period has worn off. Until then, you’ll only see the best in him.

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Nature designed us that way for a reason. Ideally, the intense bond of new lovers keeps them together long enough to raise a child to toddlerhood and ensure the continuation of the species. The end of the honeymoon period can feel like a bucket of cold water dumped on your head, but that bucket of cold water also wakes you up. It’s a shock, but it’s necessary. You’ve got to see the truth about one another eventually.

2. Don’t trust a man more than he respects you.

Trust and respect go hand in hand.

Some men will challenge you:

Why don’t you trust me? Don’t you love me? You must not love me if you’re not going to trust me on this.” these are there magic words and tongues used on you. 

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This argument sounds convincing. Of course, you love him. It makes sense that you should trust someone you love. Okay, then you’ll trust him on this, even though something feels off. No wonder something feels off.

He’s manipulating you. He’s using what you feel for him to get a free pass. Loving someone and trusting that person are two different things. Just ask any parent. You can love your children to the moon and back, but you’re not going to trust them with matches or knives.

Trust needs to be matched to specific situations and a proven track record.

A man who respects you will understand that. He won’t pressure you into doing something you don’t want to do. He’ll understand that trust takes time.

Quote: In general, the more he respects you, the more you can trust him. The less he respects you, the less trust he deserves. You can’t escape being hurt if you’re going to open yourself up to love.

3. When you do trust, accept the risks.

Love is a risky proposition. No matter how careful you are, there’s always the chance of things going horribly wrong, no matter how gentle and carefree you are something might hinder the affairs. The moment you love someone else, you open yourself up to being hurt. You can’t know what the outcome will be. And that’s not a bad thing.

The greatest achievements often require great risks. Failures, wrong turns, and despair litter the road to victory. You can’t escape being hurt if you’re going to open yourself up to love.

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What you need to know is this:No matter what happens, you can handle it. Give yourself permission to get hurt. Accept the risks inherent in love. Trust yourself to be strong enough. From lovepastor George

Because the trust you place in your own strength has a way of revealing your hidden reserves, your resourcefulness, and the new future that awaits you.  

One more thing. The best way to avoid getting burned is to have knowledge that allows you to predict the future. Knowledge is power precisely because it lets you predict things other people miss.

It’s an advantage you can use too. It allows you to understand why men respond the way they do in romantic relationships. With that knowledge, you gain more than insight into the future. You’ll actually learn how to pull at a man’s heartstrings in a way he simply can’t resist.

I hope this Article is helpful.


  1. mr lovepastor am just be washing at your posts you normally posts on facebook and nairaland, u how many girlfriend do u have, do u satisfield them. dont u hot them two. anyway men are always getting women hot each time, how which am your gal.

  2. Lol Madam Mercy, i appreciate your comments I stick to one gal, i have never hot her before and till can be my second girl and i we do the same to you two.

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